I have looked everywhere that was suggested and some places that weren't. Cannot find code. Acura dealer can't get it either. I tried a private message with the radio ser# & vin but have not received a reply yet.
Any ideas how I can get this code (without paying) ???!!@!

Have you tried pulling the radio out of the car yet? Most likley there will be a number on it, and all you have to do is call acura with that number and they can give you the code.

After disconnecting my battery I also had the radio lock up. I got a working radio code here:
https://radiocodevault.com/acura